How can i get help on having an eating disorder?

Q. i want to stop being bulimic before it gets worse, i started awhile ago but then managed to stop but things didn't stay and i started again but i don't binge eat and mainly just purge after tea- i keep purging after tea until acid stuff just comes out.

but i don't want to tell friends as none of them are that close to me anymore and my parents wouldn't understand and i don't want professional help i just want someone to help me out abit.

A. Bulimia is very difficult to recover from without professional help. Depending on your age, you might be able to get help from professionals without informing your parents. If you're underage and want professional help, you would most likely have to tell your parents.
You might also want to consider talking to a counselor, social worker or psychologist at your school.
Another idea is to find a support group for those who are going through eating disorders. These groups can be extremely helpful, and will allow you to talk with others who are in similar situations.
If you're hesitant to talk to a psychologist, you could ask your doctor for a recommendation to a nutritionist, who would be able to help you to normalize your eating patterns, and give you suggestions for foods to help you, and plans and strategies that will help you in recovery.
I also have an eating disorder and I understand how hard it is to recovery. I would really recommend talking to a doctor, psychologist and dietician to help you in your recovery. Also, in my personal experience, my parents have been much more understanding and helpful than I had ever expected them to be.
I hope that this advice has helped and given you some ideas, and if you have any more questions or want more advice, my email is laurelle117@yahoo.com
I also recommend the website Something Fishy (http://www.something-fishy.org/)

Can someone tell me what binge eating is?
Q. what is binge eating? is it where you can't stop eating?

A. Most of us overeat from time to time, and many people feel they frequently eat more than they should. Eating large amounts of food, however, does not mean that a person has binge eating disorder. Doctors are still debating the best ways to determine if someone has binge eating disorder. But most people with serious binge eating problems have:
Frequent episodes of eating what others would consider an abnormally large amount of food.
Frequent feelings of being unable to control what or how much is being eaten.
Several of these behaviors or feelings:
Eating much more rapidly than usual.
Eating until uncomfortably full.
Eating large amounts of food, even when not physically hungry.
Eating alone out of embarrassment at the quantity of food being eaten.
Feelings of disgust, depression, or guilt after overeating.
Episodes of binge eating also occur in the eating disorder bulimia nervosa.
Persons with bulimia, however, regularly purge, fast, or engage in strenuous exercise after an episode of binge eating. Purging means vomiting or using diuretics (water pills) or laxatives in greater-than-recommended doses to avoid gaining weight. Fasting is not eating for at least 24 hours. Strenuous exercise, in this case, is defined as exercising for more than an hour solely to avoid gaining weight after binge eating. Purging, fasting, and strenuous exercise are dangerous ways to attempt weight control.

Does bulimia actually make you lose weight?
Q. Well I've got a psycho friend and she's bulimic, I've tried stopping her. But I was just curious, do you actually lose weight being bulimic? I mean yes you do binge eat after wards (at most cases) but if you don't binge eat and just throw up mostly everything you eat, would you lose weight?

A. First off don't call her psycho, i'm a recovered Bulimic who suffered from this horrible disease for 13 years. I spent 1 1/2 years in therapy for it and at 27 am finally binge and purge free. No you do not always lose weight with this disease. I have never been lower than 190lbs the whole time i was bulimic (keep in mind i'm 6'2). Bulimics don't lose weight because bulimia is not about weight loss so much, its more about control. Being able to control what goes in and out of our bodies helps us cope with stress and uncontrollable situations in our lives. You need to google bulimia and educate yourself also give your friend the number to a toll free eating disorder hotline to help her talk to someone. She needs help so be there for her. This disease is horrible it ruins your teeth, messes up your stomach, ect.. i urge you to get your friend help before its too late.

Also on a side note, most bulimics also suffer from severe depression and these two diseases go hand in hand. She will probably need drugs as well as threapy to treat her disorder. I was on zoloft for 1 year while in therapy and it helped. I am now off the drugs and out of therapy and i am in control of my life instead of my ED (Eating Disorder) controling me.




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